Meaning attachment theory

Meaning attachment theory

Suggests that communication(especially verbal communication) will never be transmitted/communicated 100% to the actual receiver.

I can say for instance ” a white dog ate my lunch box”. You as the receiver can only relate to what I am saying by attaching your meaning. The possibilities are that you might be thinking a white dog, but not the actual dog that I am talking about or the lunch box that you, as the receiver have in mind.

So communication, especially verbal communication can never be transmitted 100% one can never get the exact message that you as the communicator actually have in mind

Communication can never be thought of as a cut and paste process.

NB the word receiver and sender/communicator are only used to differentiate the two participants, taking into account that in a dialog communication, one can not be referred to as a receiver only..

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And so my story began

My story will always begin the same way.

A six months old baby on the bus stop, left by his own flesh and blood mother. The tragedy of my life began. Some people are cold blood, my mother!

…You will never finish reading this story, this is the story of my life cause I am still alive….

I was a man before I became just a boy. I was a toy baby from that age, a toy baby for my relatives, aunts and uncles, no one wanted me. The person whom raised me, raised me not out of will, but because she did not have a choice and It was on commercial bases, I hear. Ohhh Lord why me? I was still on the dark at that age all I wanted was food and milk. Days went by, months passed and years called on one another.

Do you know that feeling? A feeling of having a step-mother by your side, slavering you for fun? She would call me by names and insult me in front of younger sisters? My life was not a walk in the park, I ate with pigs, I ate left overs. But its ok this is what made me, me! I used to dream about my mother driving this other big car, just to pick me up and save me from earth, at least take me to hell. I used to feel that things can’t get worse than this! If hell was not far, I could have ran there, I swear. But no, no, don’t fool yourself she did not come until this day 28 june 2008

…You will never finish reading this story, this is the story of my life cause I am still alive…..

She came back on 2008 while I was 16! I remember it was June. Funny as it may sound but when I saw her, I could feel the distance, the forces pulling both me and her apart. I did not think by that time. I always knew that I could not call her my mother. I called her “mother” but I will never and have never called her “mother”. I never asked her even a single question till this day, because I felt and still feel that her answer is not worth satisfying the questions I still have. Not even a single question like “why did you leave us?…why did you come back?” Well I know why, she came back to rip what she has never sown. She was waiting for the right time for that.

As time went by I started thinking…”Why did she come back after all these years?..what’s her agenda? Did it take her that long to find me where she left me? Why me? What is on her mind? What’s her plans about me?”

This is my burden, my heavy burden and I shall forever carry it with me. This is what made me, me.

…You will never finish reading this story, this is the story of my life, cause I am still alive….

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Google recognition

You can find Pr Profile over the web! Flipping good!

The new route for PR

Well I has come to my attention that there is a team from UJ, consisting of three members who are looking forward to commercializing their business. Their business is now focused at measuring the growth of the Brand/ a specific brand over the Web/ cyberspace! The company is cloud based and Public relations will soon use these particular services to measure their respective brands over the next coming years.

This is how the business works: they take a brand eg. “Unisa” and they add all the other supporting keywords that Unisa as a brand uses on daily bases. Like the professor’s and lecture’s names and others. When you use any internet based service, their programs collect such data and though which the growth and the performance of a brand and business is going…

They are now preparing for the competition in Britain, since they are considered the best in the country. The whole idea is been sponsored by Microsoft and it look like Public relations will take a new or a better path!

Reference http://www.sabc.co.za

Quotes that govern my life

I don’t just live, I have those quotes that govern and run my life. I found this following quotes useful to me and I so hope that they will give you and equip you with the skills to have more questions than answers. They will make you, you and help you function well in the society.

#1 Sh*t happens
well life I never smooth, especially from the start, when you begin. My greatest teacher,Experience taught me that! Life does not have a manual book, to refer to so be careful cause…sh*t happens!!!

#2 Experience is the best teacher
My greatest teacher of all times. You will never forget something that you did or happened to you!

#3 Tell your story right
Well, the grandfather of this idea, the man who planted in on me( Cobol Snoop) highlighted the fact that people/human beings do not often listen to the message itself, but the way in which the message is being communicated! He told me and believed that he will one day sell someone Death, raw as it is, that is his target in a long run.

#4 know yourself
Self knowledge and actualization Is the beginning of the wisdom. Know God and Satan within you and be certain that you know and activate either one of the above contradicting forces.

#5 never look for help or joy from the outside source
If you can revel all the powers that a human being has, you will never look outside a person has got everything that he or she needs, that problem is on the knowledge and usage of the skills and super natural powers! No one can tell you how beautiful you are better than yourself! You are beautiful!

#6 Sh*t happens
The only reason I repeated the above, is because sh*t happens over and over again! So keep in mind that sh*t happens.

#7 Never be the ordinary
Well the story behind the ordinary does not start here, in fact its within most of us, its genetical, but even genes evolve…it once happened that a man was born in an ordinary township, he was raised ordinarily just like any ordinary boy. He went to the ordinary school and graduated in an ordinary way.

Since his father was ordinary, he died and got berried in an ordinary way. An ordinary man had one person so refer to as an ordinary mother. He got married to an ordinary woman and had ordinary kids. He passed away in an ordinary way and left 2 ordinary kids, an ordinary mother and an ordinary wife.

What an ordinary person? Don’t be ordinary!!!!

the power of silence v1

What I have uncovered shook the core of my soul. I felt the presence of resistance, resistance from outside forces. What am I going to do to overcome theses forces? The power of silence..

Indeed experience is the best teacher. I stood there trying to find answers, while I was using my answer to find answers. The power of silence.I almost thought she a fully written slate but she clean. Brand-new the unforeseen forces are running her life. She is trapped, if she is not, I am. She needs God. Oh my God how can I make you unleash you? The power of silence.

My teacher described her girlfriend as a clean slave that he will write on. I was afraid I was gonna do the absolute opposite. I taught her everything that I knew and even those that I didn’t. Because I am human my disappointment reached its boiling point, when she is doing the absolute opposite/ thinking at the lower level than it is expected of her.

Well I took my time and analyzed what impact my teachings has on her life. I took time to know and understand “what is it that I am doing wrong”? The power of silence.

Presenting you my dream

Build yourself a Name

This is my dream, the definition of I! Let me break it down for you young blood, my life will forever be surrounded by this, my dream, PR Profile will forever be mine! Everything that I do will the extension of my PR Profile.

i am building a name- thanks for calling, our doors are always open… for business

What is an african thinking?

What is an african thinking?.

6 in 8 billion

back at home.

We were back at home. Ipotseng Hendrick Kgaswane, Tshepang Mathe, Ratikwane Godwin Kaekae, Refilwe Virginia Molefe and James Magetse Smeja http://www.smejamagetsi.wordpress.com

They say home is where the heart is! Our hearts where at Tlokweng by that particular time, catching up with friends. This guys are really crazy and I know sh*t is gonna happen for all of us, we will come together and change lives of many people at TLokweng

Amen

i am building a name- thanks for calling, our doors are always open… for business

i am building a name- thanks for calling, our doors are always open… for business